not at any time any person can have. Have this capability does not mean that no longer feel lonely

1, as is often the ability to contact, but also an ability to ignore alone,'O'-being. counter. co., and in a sense is more important than the ability interaction. On the other hand, not good communication is certainly a pity, impatience alone might again be a very serious flaw.
2, alone is a capability, not at any time any person can have. Have this capability does not mean that no longer feel lonely, but loneliness is at ease to make it productive. In loneliness in three states. First, insecure, clueless, Pepsi mood, bent on escape loneliness. Second, gradually accustomed to loneliness, to settle down and establish a structured life, with reading, writing or other services to expel loneliness. Third, as a poetic loneliness own soil, a creation of opportunities, induce on the existence of life, the deep self-reflection and experience.
3, solitude is a beautiful life moments and beautiful experience, though some lonely, lonely, but there is a substantial middle. Growth alone is the soul of the necessary space, alone, we withdraw from others and out of affairs, returned to his own. This time, we face ourselves and God alone, starting with his own soul and the mysterious power of the universe in the dialogue. All the strict sense of the soul are alone when life started. With others about this ancient said, citing the chat and discussion that is; only to immerse myself in the masterpieces of the masters through the ages only when there is a real spiritual sentiment. A sightseeing tour with the others, it is tourism; only his face alone boundless mountains and the sea of time, will really feel the communication with nature.
4, from a psychological point of view, the needs of people alone, to carry out internal integration. The so-called integration, is to put a new experience in internal memory in a proper position. Only through this integration process, external self-image in order to be digested, can also be a self-independent, the growth of the system. So, whether alone the ability to relate to a person can truly create a relatively self-contained inner world, which will in turn affect his relations with the outside world.
5, how to judge how a person without his "self" mean? have a reliable test method is to see if he could be alone. When you left alone, you feel bored, unbearable, or is it felt a quiet, substantial and satisfying?
6, for love alone and nothing to do with a person's character, the same people who love solitude may be a lively personality, like a friend who, no matter how he is willing to interact with others, being alone is always a necessity in his life. In his view, a lack of communication of life is certainly a flaw, a lack of life alone is just a disaster.
7, the world no one can bear the absolute loneliness. However, those who absolutely can not stand alone but is a soul empty of people. The world is there such people, their fear is being alone, so that they and their few moments, for they are simply a form of torture. As long as the idle down, they must find a place to go to recreation. Their surface, passes very busy days, in fact, most of their inner emptiness. What they have done is to find ways to avoid seeing his face. I am only one explanation is that even they themselves feel that their own poor, and so poor that his stay with the top meaningless, and then boring pastime is also much more interesting than this. The result is that they have become increasingly scarce, more and not his own, forming a vicious circle.